Joy in the Time of Corona

Years ago I watched a film called Love in the Time of Cholera. This movie highlighted the drama that always goes on behind the scenes during times of war, plagues, and uncertainty. Life was still in full-swing in the backdrop of that crisis, as it is in the one we currently face. Now that COVID-19…

What black and white women can learn from each other

(Disclaimer: The generalities described in this post do not necessarily reflect the variations of individual personalities and tendencies that exist in American culture. I am simply describing  big picture observations as I have experienced them in my own life. Feel free to add your perspective in the comments!) I’ve always had about as many white…

Sick and Tired…of feeling sick and tired

I remember when I was a girl, and I’d visit my friends’ homes, they’d have to knock on their mamas’ bedroom doors to ask, “Can we go to the game?” or “Can we get something to eat?” The mamas  would be tucked deep into their rooms, snuggled under blankets talking on the phone, eating,  or…

It’s Called Spirit Airlines for a Reason…

Spirit Airlines… They want to bring you closer to the Spirit by taking you all the way to glory! You’ll be tempted to imbibe spirits once you deplane! You’ll feel like a spirit after being shaken and rattled until your teeth chatter! —————————————————————————————————————————————– I know when I rode them a couple weeks ago, I wasn’t…

Girl Trippin’

Have you ever taken a girls’ trip? Try it sometime! There is nothing like traveling to bring out the best (and the worst) in people! You find out who is like sunshine in the morning, who is a bit selfish with the bathroom or inflexible when it comes to trying something new, who can go…

On the Road to Rome, Georgia

Last weekend I met with the lovely ladies of Fellowship Baptist Church of Rome.  Over lunch, I shared my story with them through pictures as we munched on delicious Italian pasta and salad. They were lively, warm, and friendly. And they made my day. What also made my day was the drive deep into the…

Its Not Just Snitches Who Get Stitches!

So, what had happened was… I was getting rid of a glass table top from my dining room a couple weeks ago.  I dragged it from my garage and propped it up against my fence, then called the city to come get it along with the base. The city quickly told me they would pick…

Buon Giorno!

One of my great friends, Georgia, called me to come back to Italy after our first tour there four years ago. I worked there as a Military Family Life Counselor (MFLC) for several months that year. It was a time of weekend travel to vineyards, trips to the rocky coast, Pompeii, and Rome. I accepted…

Roomies!

I love living alone. I get to run around the house  in my favorite brown suit (it fits me perfectly!), mop the floor if I wake up in the middle of the night, or just come home after a long day of talking, kick my soggy socks off and leave them in the middle of…

First Friendsgiving

    The careening caravan of “ThanksChrsmasNewYerKwanzHanuk” holidaytime is supposed to be a fun, party-filled, family hugging, laughter and singing train ride (whoowhoo!) , but  it can feel more like a bruising train wreck for those of us bumping along without a spouse, significant other, or who have just gone through the loss of a loved…

The Wonders of Oaxaca, (Wa-HA-ka) Mexico

  Buckner International/Shoes for Orphan Souls What a privilege it was to travel to southern Mexico to help distribute shoes to children there who participate in Buckner’s Family Hope Centers! Buckner International began with a minister from Tennessee whose heart was moved to compassion for the many orphans he saw after the Civil War. He…

The Soul Remains: Lessons I’ve Learned From My Daddy

My father is a tall,lean man with an easy, gentle walk. He rubs his whiskers across my face and laughs. When he talks, he talks…. and talks… and I listen in… My father has taught me many things throughout the course of my life–how to run from a headless chicken, how to clean a fresh-caught…